Welcome,
I’m really glad you are here. I am looking forward to wonderful conversation with you. This blog is all about how to create what you want in your life and manifest your desires. Most desires worth achieving in this world have been declared impossible by others.
People often become what they believe themselves to be. If you believe you cannot do something, it makes you incapable of doing it. But when you believe you can, you acquire the ability to do it. This message is simple. Be your miracle. Create your miracle. Live your miracle.
If you want 1 year of prosperity, grow grain. If you want 10 years of prosperity, grow trees. If you want 100 years of prosperity, grow people.
Favorite Quote of Lori Prokop by Ghandi
Keep your thoughts positive,
because your thoughts become your words.
Keep your words positive,
because your words become your behaviours.
Keep your behaviours positive,
because your behaviours become your habits.
Keep your habits positive,
because your habits become your values.
Keep your values positive,
because your values become your destiny.
Gandhi
Lori Prokop
Creator "How to Heal Abuse"
Co- Founder of the high traffic blog community Keyboard Culture
Posted by keyboardculture at September 30, 2007 11:34 PM | Questions and Comments (0)
"Believe In Yourself" A Favorite Inspirational Poem of Lori Prokop
There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren't the way you had hoped they would be,
....that's when you have to tell yourself that things will get better.
There are times when people disappoint you and let you down,
but those are the times when you must remind yourself to trust your own judgments and opinions, to keep your life focused on believing in yourself and all that you are capable of.
There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life,
and it is up to you to accept them.
Constantly keep yourself headed in the right direction for you. It may not be easy at times, but in those times of struggle you will find a stronger sense of who you are, So when the days come that are filled with frustration
and unexpected responsibilities,
remember to believe in yourself and all you want your life to be, because the challenges and changes will only help you to find the goals that you know are meant to come true for you.
Keep believing in yourself.
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Lori Prokop
Creator "How to Heal Abuse"
Co- Founder of the high traffic blog community Keyboard Culture
Posted by keyboardculture at September 30, 2007 07:44 PM | Questions and Comments (0)
10 Steps Proving No Problem is Too Big to Solve
Have problems? Want solutions…now?
You may be feeling angry, annoyed or anxious. You might be feeling frustrated, overwhelmed or hopeless.
You’ll love this article because it will show you why no problem is too big to solve.
You have the power. And the 10 step Lori Prokop Anger Management System will help you take it back, even in the toughest of situations.
Here are 4 questions, which upon answering, which will provide the solution to your problem:
1) What are the concrete actions you are observing affecting your well-being?
2) How do you feel in connection with what you are observing?
3) What are the unfulfilled needs or desires creating your feelings?
4) What are the concrete actions you are requesting to enrich your life now?
You might be saying, “I don’t even know what these four questions mean. How can I answer questions I don’t understand? I need some help here.”
Great.
Here is a summary of the 10 steps of the Anger Management System, which will help you understand why no problem is too great to solve.
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Posted by Lori Prokop at August 13, 2006 04:20 PM | Questions and Comments (3)
End Your Fear of Failure Because No Problem is Too Big to Solve
Here are the questions to make sure you are clear on before you start talking problem resolution:
1) Is your observation clear and without judgment, shame, blame, guilt or diagnosis of yourself or others?
2) Are you able to name your feelings and needs?
3) Do you have a guess of what the other person’s feelings and needs are?
4) Do you have a clear request of what you want to have happen next?
Okay, then, now it is time to talk.
Here is a guideline on what to say (and not say).
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Posted by Lori Prokop at August 9, 2006 10:12 AM | Questions and Comments (1)
Anger Management: Overcoming the Failure to Communicate
When there are disagreements, even hostile outbursts, whose needs are talked about first?
Start by imagining that everyone’s needs can be understood and met; no one “winning” at the cost of the other.
This anger management system is complete only after both people have been heard, understood and walk away satisfied.
If only one person has been heard, understood and satisfied, you are half-way done.
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Posted by Lori Prokop at August 6, 2006 01:58 PM | Questions and Comments (0)
Anger Management: What to Do When the Other Person is Wrong
If you really want to meet your own needs, without it being costly to you at the time or costing you later, it is important the other person’s needs are met as well.
For anyone who says, “The other people are wrong. They should NOT have said what they said and did what they did. They don’t deserve to have their needs met.”
This is holding an enemy image of the other person. It is costly to whoever is holding the enemy image.
Before speaking, acting or attempting to get your needs met, if you need to resolve any enemy image, start with step one of the Anger Management System.
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Posted by Lori Prokop at August 3, 2006 09:11 AM | Questions and Comments (2)
How to Resolve Any Problem and Get What You Want
People who feel angry often think they are angry because the other person “made them” angry.
This anger management step focuses on the power you have to undo this misconception and choose to deal with angry people in a way that makes life more wonderful for you and others.
To do this, you will identify:
1) Your clear observation without judgment, wrongness or blame
2) Your feelings,
3) Your needs and
4) A clear request.
What is a clear request?
“I want you to be more reliable,” is not clear or achievable.
Why?
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Posted by Lori Prokop at July 30, 2006 10:49 PM | Questions and Comments (1)
Anger Management Miracle: Focus on What You
Anger focuses on situations and actions we don’t want.
This is like wanting the tire on your car to stop being flat.
You can want all you want.
But, to resolve the problem, you have to identify what needs to be done to fix the tire. Then take the action to achieve it.
But, it can be hard to figure out what you need.
Especially since most people have been programmed from early ages that needs are bad or selfish, and a person is better, stronger or more acceptable when they do not have needs.
This is like saying a person who stops breathing is better, stronger or more acceptable than the humans who need oxygen to stay alive. It makes no sense.
Needs are an inner compass and direction showing us how to live and do well.
Needs are your inborn owner’s manual. They are interactive so when your needs are not being met, your emotions and body let you know.
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Posted by Lori Prokop at July 28, 2006 03:55 AM | Questions and Comments (0)
Building Self Confidence While Ending Fear and Worry
“What do you want?”
That statement can feel like a loaded question.
We are taught “not to want” by people who want their lives to feel “easier” by not having to help others achieve well-being. This doesn’t mean they were bad people. Rather, they had needs they chose to put before your needs.
Often, they didn’t even realize how to identify and get their own needs met and, as a result, didn’t have the skills to help or teach others.
Having unmet needs is the source of low self-worth, lack of self confidence and fear and worry for many people.
Part of living a peaceful life, including achieving world peace, is realizing that overlooking or postponing your own and others’ needs and well-being is very costly and only temporary.
What’s the First Clue You Have Unmet Needs?
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Posted by Lori Prokop at July 24, 2006 12:40 AM | Questions and Comments (0)
Anger Management Secret: How to Overcome Fear and Anger Quickly
Most people, especially women, have been taught it is bad or weak to have needs. We have been trained to ignore or discount our wants and desires.
This always backfires.
Wants and desires are innate mechanisms to keep us alive and evolving. It would be like repressing your breath, heart beat or digestion and still expecting to live a full, happy, healthy life.
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Posted by Lori Prokop at July 18, 2006 02:41 AM | Questions and Comments (0)
